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Sometimes fantasizing is retrospective: actual events are replayed from memory with great vividness.
This form predominates when what is viewed as evidence of possible reciprocation can be re-experienced (a kind of selective or revisionist history).
At their most severe, intrusive limerent thoughts can occupy an individual's waking hours completely, resulting—like severe addiction—in significant or complete disruption of the limerent's normal interests and activities, including work and family.
For serial limerents, this can result in debilitating, lifelong underachievement in school, work, and family life.
Other characteristics include acute longing for reciprocation, fear of rejection, and unsettling shyness in the limerent object's presence.
A limerent person may have acute sensitivity to any act, thought, or condition that can be interpreted favorably.
In their thoughts, such a person tends to emphasize what is admirable in the limerent object and to avoid any negative or problematic attributes.
During the height of limerence, thoughts of the limerent object (or person) are at once persistent, involuntary and intrusive. appear to be genetically driven': All events, associations, stimuli, and experiences return thoughts to the limerent object with unnerving consistency, while conversely the constant thoughts about the limerent object define all other experiences.
Comparisons made between limerence and substance addiction may draw attention to the constant, free availability of the limerent's "drug of choice".
Fantasies that are concerned with far-fetched ideas are usually dropped by the fantasizer.