Proper dating age difference
I'm Turkish, when a Turkish celebrity dates someone who is 12 years older/younger than his partner, people look at it as something very bizarre.Especially if both sides are younger than 50 years old.Graph of the Half-age-plus-seven rule ("never date anyone under half your age plus 7"), which claims to dictate what age disparity between two people is acceptable in dating/romantic/intimate relationships during the late 20th century / early 21st century (called the "Standard creepiness rule" in the xkcd webcomic).According to this rule, the age of the younger person should not be less than half the age of the older person plus seven years, so that (for example) no one older than 65 should be in a relationship with anyone younger than 39 and a half, no one older than 22 should be in a relationship with anyone younger than 18, and no one under 14 years of age should be in a relationship at all...But age IS important in sex, and a romantic relationship involves sex.If when you were 26 years old you would get arrested for having sex with your partner (meaning if she/he was under 18 when you were 26), this is something odd. If you are old enough to be your partner's parent, this is considered disgusting everywhere, including America.2. Cultural On average in Europe, most men marry women around three years younger than themselves.
Psychology Despite what some people say, big age differences is indeed considered the result of a psychological problem in science.Similarly, in his autobiography, George Arnold Escher (1843-1939, father of famous artist M. Escher) claimed that when he was looking for a wife ca.1880, he thought that the ideal ages for husband and wife at marriage would be if the woman's age was half the husband's age plus 10. Self-made graphic, with layout partially influenced by the PD image en:image: Half Plus Seven Graph 2.From another point of view, the chart can be interpreted as saying that there should not be an age disparity of as much as five years unless the younger person has an age of 19 or more, a ten-year disparity should exist only if the younger person has an age of 24 or more, and a twenty-year disparity should occur only if the younger person has an age of 34 or more.(And people only slightly older than 14 should only be involved with those almost exactly the same age as themselves.) To read the chart, go to the position along the x-axis which corresponds to your age, and the green range (between the black and red lines) directly above that position corresponds to the range of your partner's ages which is deemed acceptable by the rule.